Don’t let the psychological thief sneak away your happiness.
With the improvement of living standards, living conditions are getting better and better, but many people find that happiness has become unreachable.
Even people sigh “more money, less happiness”, yes, happiness depends largely on factors that are not related to wealth.
The following seven reasons are stealing the culprits of our happiness.
Not good at discovering the sun, there are many positive and good aspects in life, but many people ignore them. “Only seeing their own misfortunes, ignoring their own happiness”, “enlarge the happiness of others and narrow their own”Happiness” is its true portrayal.
銆€銆€In order to attract attention, some media have also publicized reports on certain events in their lives.
Although it satisfies people’s curiosity to a certain extent, it also narrows people’s positive attitude.
Lack of Faith After a 20-year sprint-like fortune race, some people, besides making money, don’t know what the goals and pursuits in life are, or even what they really want.
This lack of faith and ideal state is difficult to produce long-lasting, happy happiness.
I don’t know what the saying goes, “The contentment is always happy,” but there are fewer and fewer people who can satisfy themselves. With the house wanting to change the size, there is a job that wants to change better, and with money, I want to earn more. theseDesire, instructing people to run endlessly and hard, and bracing to advance to the peak of the “brilliance”.
Mutual distrust of the society Although the communication is highly developed, the hearts of people are gradually drifting away.
Nowadays people are more and more suspicious of the “right brain” thinking mode, while the right brain is in charge of individual, strength, local, etc., and the feeling of happiness is zero.
The sense of well-being comes from the feelings of the left brain. In many cases, there is less happiness in life, or others no longer have the ability to feel happiness.
Older love is more modern people put their main energy into the competition, than the position, than the house, than the wealth . than the comparison, people’s hearts only have desire, no happiness.
Once people are not looking for happiness, but how to be happy than others, happiness will be far away from you.
I don’t know how to give a study at Harvard University in the United States. I have shown that I can help others in life and make myself feel happier.
However, in modern society, there are fewer and fewer people who are willing to give selfless dedication, and more and more people are worried about it.
If you finally count “what can I get from it” and “doing something worthwhile”, it will be very tired.
I am too worried about the problems of buying a house, raising children, and burdening the family. Because of the work pressure caused by the promotion space in the workplace, the handling of interpersonal relationships between friends and colleagues has become a “stress source” for the Chinese.
In the big cities, regardless of the elderly, young people or children, they are often in a state of irritability and anxiety, which makes people unable to realize happiness from the bottom of their hearts.
銆€銆€To be happy, the first thing to do is to lower your desires.
Don’t blindly compare, chase vanity, face life with a satisfied attitude, and understand that everyone’s happiness is different: maybe you don’t have the power to respond, but there are many good friends who are friendly and close to each other; maybe, you are not gorgeous.Big villas, but there are warm and tidy homes and family members who care about you; maybe you don’t have luxury jewellery, you have a good family, but you have a healthy body that you can’t buy.